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Re: It is normal when the groom is more senior than the girl for 25 years?

Author: Sam (---.dsl.irvnca.pacbell.net)
Date: 06-01-06 17:14

Has anyone noticed the irony in this thread with these later posts? The topic initially reflected the scorn many Eastern ladies are feeling toward men who seem to value only youth and looks in women. Now, after a few posts by our Slavic ladies the thread has transitioned into an equally distasteful display of interest in money by the ladies. Only a few weeks ago the multiple “scammer” topics were unhelpful to the impression men leave on the ladies, and I was among the few who fought those posts. I like to point out to the ladies it is not helpful, especially to their own cause, to liberally flaunt their focus on money.

How does it help to post, “A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man. )))))))”? The author of this comment may think it sounds cute to say so, but that is because she has more street smarts than real intellectual capacity to see her comment misrepresents Slavic women as merely gold hunters. This comment is a betrayal to Slavic women who in my opinion are less materialistic and more character oriented than Western women. Unfortunately we have her counterparts among our men who say equally cute but dumb things. Also, it does not help to say in this latest post by yet another newcomer “and older boys without money looking for girls too-it’s problem!!!” Is the assumption here that if a man does not have money, he should be alone and not look for anyone? I would have thought women were open to the old sentiment that there is someone for everyone out there, that happiness is possible even for two who have little money.

So, addressing the topic of this thread and the irony of what the ladies are saying in these later posts, I like to add this point. As long as women are going to flaunt shamelessly that they value material things in a man above all other things, the men may flaunt shamelessly that the greatest virtue in a woman is not her character, but rather her youth and good looks. Does that appeal to you ladies? You want us for money; just as we want you for your youth? You don’t want us if we haven’t got money; and we don’t want you if you’re not beautiful or over 35! How is that for street smarts? Do you think that such display of cute street smarts will help the exchanges on this forum? I think it is bad enough that some of the men bring their inappropriate cute remarks as their means of communication with the ladies; I wish to see the ladies on the other side stick to the careful, tasteful and considered remarks I am accustomed to getting from Real Russian ladies.

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