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Author: Ultra (---.go-online.ru)
Date: 04-22-04 03:14
Hi David,
I agree with you that smoking is a terrible habit and I can not stand people who smoke myself. And yes, strange as it may seem but the younger girls (under 20) are more likely to smoke. This phenomenon can be explained: young girls-teenagers want to look older than they in fact are, so that to attract attention of boys who older than they are. They want to show how independent (from parents), grown up and “cool” they are…Girls are usually taught smoking at discos where some “dope” is required… It sounds very silly, I know, but this young girls’ attitude to smoking. I have forgotten to mention one more reason –they want to be “like others”…So young organisms get used to this bad habit very quickly…moreover let’s not forget about “stresses” which so often happen in teenagers’ life (unshared love, misunderstanding at school and at home etc.).Hopefully most of the girls when they are 23-25 become wiser and start to understand that it is time to take care of their health as they are future mothers etc. And they do their best to give up smoking and succeed. So when you see profiles of 25-35 year-old age group and they say “Smoking-no”, in most cases it is true. But keep in mind that it does not mean “never ever”. It does not mean that a lady does not smoke from time to time (“just for fun”) when she is among her friends who do smoke. It may happen occasionally.
So, I suggest you to look for your soul mate among those who do not smoke, but when you meet and it happens –don’t make any rush decisions. You should just explain to her your attitude towards smoking (and that your concern is not your “allergy to it” but that you really care of Her health). And if a lady really loves you she will give up smoking right away, I assure you. It would be the best convincing proof of her feelings to you.
I wish you good luck in your search!
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