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Author: Blaine (---.ph.ph.cox.net)
Date: 04-23-05 22:06
I would like to answer you,Nadya. By the time women are 30 years of age,most have children,many have been divorced. It is different in America,but women from FSU often start the communications with men much older then themselves. A woman who had been divorced,especially if she has been divorced 2 times,often has emotional and trust issues. Also,if she has kids,she also has connection to her ex ( or exes) The appeal of a younger woman is the appeal to a fresh start, and family! Even if she has a child,if this child is not too old,a man has a good chance to win her and her mother`s heart,and to have a friendly,warm family. I do believe that if the age difference is too great,maybe 15 years or more,then there exists a generaton gap between the people. Also,men must consider that there is a good chance that he is going to leave this world sooner then her,or that she will turn into a "personal care assistant" at a time when she is still young and vital. I think that the young women should answer this question. Whenever I have asked,the answer was always age is not important. But I think a very young woman may have a different set of ideas,and values which do not agree with an older man. For example-a young woman in America reaches the age of 21,and she wants to party,drink,and explore sexual encounters. Her knowledge of life has only risen to the rank of high school or college. I realize that not all women fit my description,and I have been pleasantly surprised by women from FSU who were mature beyond their age,and definitely more so then the same age American woman. Also,Nadya--young boys are obviously vulnerable to abuse or sexual attack. All children should learn the warning signs,and be able to shout,scream,or fight off such an attack if they are able,and to learn when an embrace or a touch is inappropriate.
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