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Author: Jim Mcgrattan (---.proxy.aol.com)
Date: 10-15-03 22:19
hi tann, i dont understand why your guy in his late fifties was offended by your reply unless he was so arrogant that he thought he was irrestible to you or perhaps he has the impression that women from russia or surrounding countries are desperate to marry the first man who asks them or shows an interest in them. if i receive a refusal from a woman then i accept that, no matter what her reason may be. after all, it is her choice and she has a right to decide who she wishes to correspond with.
but there will always be men who are offended or surprised that a woman refuses his offer and really such men are either conceited or immature.
the first thing anyone must do is show respect to anyone they contact and if a woman refuses to correspond then that is her right. this guy should have been thankful that you had the good manners to reply to him at all for many do not.
anyway, there are good and bad people on all dating sites, perservere and hopefully one day you may hit the jackpot, these are my thoughts about it. i think one has to remain optimistic and only by perserverance will we all one day meet miss or mr right.
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