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Integrating and making Whole your sense of Self.



The last couple of years should have had you concerned or focused on responsibilities toward home or family, and was a phase of inner preparation that should have now established a strong sense of "inner" stability.



Now the issue becomes how do you express this newly established "stability" into a self-image that you can be more comfortable in, and begin to cast yourself into a new mold.



But because those past responsibilities had such an effect on you , you probably have no creative or expressive way to integrate a new self image into the public, and that is the task now. To begin to be yourself again, but in a much more self disciplined, sort of, "dance of life".



And this will require pacing yourself and questioning long term goals, and long term commitments. There are similarities between the security phase and this phase in that it is a long and drawn-out period, but now the energy can be released through some form of creative "self" expression.



All manner of transformations, changing old habits, letting go of the past, or giving unconditionally, assist in the process to help cast you into this new mold.



Even new relationships can assist in this transformation, simply by causing you to have a more inclusive attitude, as you begin to relax into a comfort zone.



And because you desire to express yourself in a new way but do not yet know how to get what you want, this too will require compromising in a new way.



The caution is that as you begin to express yourself and receive attention, if you are expressing yourself out of a lack of love, you could give birth to an unwanted project, and miss really changing.



The key is, to convince yourself that you are loved even by acting "as if" you are. In fact, the more love that you discipline into expression, the more acceptance you will receive - and you can truly be inspired!



Decide first, where and how to express this new self image, and then - start to have some "serious" fun!



TAURUS - Intuition



Balancing the over importance of love involvement.



After years of learning new skills in communicating and becoming more flexible in interacting with others by learning to discuss differing ideas amicably and incorporating these differing philosophies by acceptance of differences, has now developed in you a new attitude for living.



But now, in order to enjoy life more fully you need to incorporate this new attitude with new picture symbolism - an ideal dream formed with images of values you admire.



Seeing yourself in a relationship etc. that incorporates your values instead of, how it has been, adjusting your values to fit in with others. Right now, things can really improve, if you use this picture symbolism technique more fully.



These new picture images should reflect your intense seriousness and commitment, combined with images of reward. Ask yourself - what images best represent reward for you.



You can have it all now Taurus, especially in relationships, if you just use images to motivate yourself now. As commitment in relationships deepens, its influence strikes home. In fact, thoughts of moving in together or marriage begins to call up issues of long term security and how to incorporate the two, new relationships and living arrangements.



With issues of security and breaking free from family and friends in order to strengthen relationships always creates problems with responsibility toward family - this could be mirrored by increased concern or responsibility for family or home.



The new picture symbolism should include an expansion in relationships as well as increased responsibility toward parents and home - with the relationship supporting you in your support of family. This might feel like too much, and that is why pictures have a way of blending all these conflicting emotions into a workable dream come true.



Imagination - get to work!



Balancing the over importance of love involvement.



After years of learning new skills in communicating and becoming more flexible in interacting with others by learning to discuss differing ideas amicably and incorporating these differing philosophies by acceptance of differences, has now developed in you a new attitude for living.



But now, in order to enjoy life more fully you need to incorporate this new attitude with new picture symbolism - an ideal dream formed with images of values you admire.



Seeing yourself in a relationship etc. that incorporates your values instead of, how it has been, adjusting your values to fit in with others. Right now, things can really improve, if you use this picture symbolism technique more fully.



These new picture images should reflect your intense seriousness and commitment, combined with images of reward. Ask yourself - what images best represent reward for you.



You can have it all now Taurus, especially in relationships, if you just use images to motivate yourself now. As commitment in relationships deepens, its influence strikes home. In fact, thoughts of moving in together or marriage begins to call up issues of long term security and how to incorporate the two, new relationships and living arrangements.



With issues of security and breaking free from family and friends in order to strengthen relationships always creates problems with responsibility toward family - this could be mirrored by increased concern or responsibility for family or home.



The new picture symbolism should include an expansion in relationships as well as increased responsibility toward parents and home - with the relationship supporting you in your support of family. This might feel like too much, and that is why pictures have a way of blending all these conflicting emotions into a workable dream come true.



Imagination - get to work!





GEMINI - Discrimination



Controlling Your Mind Chatter.



All of your desire to party, to have fun, to be loved and included over the last couple of years comes from a general lack of self worth, and a need to deepen your understanding of what your real values are.



Feeling that it has been a lot of hard work to get you to where you are is proof that unless your values are based on a deeper understanding of what your needs are, you could find yourself throwing away things that really were based on superficial needs.



You have already learned to combine the party attitude that you get from socializing with the practicality of making money through hard work, but even that can become a rut.



Your friends and loved ones enjoy being with you and value you, but they are never going to give you enough assurances for you to be fully yourself, and that is where you stand now.



Now you will have the recipe to launch yourself into a dream come true over the next couple of years, as long as you value being flexible and reaching out to others in your day to day activities. For unless you can share your new understanding with others the barrier that separates you from feeling connected keeps you somewhat detached.



This new phase of integration can more easily express itself in the area of work, but in a humbling servitude attitude, a kind of preparation for a more complete integration with others in 2007.



Now the forces are trying to slow you down, to make you think twice, to communicate clearly with others, but most importantly to communicate clearly with yourself.



If your outer self is setting goals without a proper measurement of your true talents and desires, then this period could feel like there is no "real" communication. If fact there probably is no real communication taking place within.



The self talk needs to become less judgmental and more in balance with what you foresee for your own future. Judgment separates you from others and is the cause of the limitations that you must be feeling now.



You are learning to discriminate, and the first step begins with not being so hard on yourself, which is caused from the last few years of judging things and others in order to measure your own self worth.



The phase of developing self worth is completed but the remnants are the patterns of negative self talk. For you to go forward now requires a reorientation of your relationship with others - the less judgment of others the more power you have to control your own mind chatter.



To integrate more fully now, the mind must become crystal clear in order to perceive others in their divine role as teachers - a reflection of yourself.



CANCER - Receptivity

Building a Nest Egg.



Well Cancer after all that you have been through over the last couple of years, you are now brand new, and everything that you thought you "were", you are now "not", so now what? Well you can only go forward and the only problem with that is, Cancers love going back.



Hopefully you have begun to create a safe haven to retreat to, a place to nurture your vulnerable qualities, either by fixing up your home, or entertaining, or making a move or buying real estate etc., and have made your space as private as possible.



Your friends might feel that you are excluding them but explain to them that you are just strengthening your inner core. In fact why not begin to take up core training - you'll become so centered no one will be able to resist you or your invitations.



The first area of core training is in the area of money and self worth, and here is were the focus will be for several years as you express yourself through building a nest egg.



Begin balancing the intense financial focus by including more creativity into your life, otherwise you will begin to believe everything and everyone can be bought with money, when it could be just you.



This balancing, when expressed through areas that bring a sense of winning or being the center of attention all lead down the same path, fun and good times, and this path is your balance now.



The creative urge in this area will eventually overflow into the other areas of your life. Taking high risks with a devil-may-care attitude heightens your sense of self worth but can also burn you out as well.



In fact the more expressive you are in your money making focus the more you will feel that you are really living, but that is not necessarily living "real". By that I mean that the more you are focused on money the more you will meet lovers or romantic partners that also focused on money and especially your money - and that can lead to a re-evaluation of your values, which is the lesson in 2006, and that can only be good.



LEO - Suggestion



Developing Individuality While Maintaining Security.



The awakening you are coming into over the next few years begins with letting go of control.



There is a new "power game" emerging, but what that will be depends on how thoroughly fed up you get now, and how thoroughly you let go of control.



Home and issues of security force you to reconcile differences with others in order to maintain your security. This need to compromise keeps you moving forward while allowing you to keep letting go of control.



Up until now, you have been what others have wanted you to be, and now it takes great courage and stamina to be yourself, who that is is what you are discovering now.



Beginning to be yourself always begins with a mirroring in others, and if you live with someone then they will begin to mirror the issues that you need to work on within yourself, that is why it is important to compromise.



As your sense of individuality strengthens so will your feeling of inner security and with it a new image of what you can become. As this new image forms into a concept of individuality it threatens others, and again that is where the compromising keeps you secure until this image fully forms.



The task is, how do you more fully be yourself without becoming so independent that others are threatened, and how do you maintain security while becoming more independent.



By the end of 2006 when you discover that the solution to the task is to "live from the "heart" (you should be feeling an inkling of that now) and that you realize then that the "letting go" is the "power", and that the "game" is going on within you, you'll wonder why you didn't just "let go" sooner.



VIRGO - Response



Clearing false structures of error.



Money or possessions might have been an adequate exchange for the lack of love and respect that you have received these days but it is not enough now, and perhaps it is time to reevaluate your long term goals.



Your past ways of thinking; being overcritical or having negative self talk about yourself or others has finally caught up with you, and although your world seems safe, it may be lacking a full merging with others.



The task now is to expand your communications skills by keeping your old ways of thinking in check. In fact, the more you focus away from the flaws in others the more easily you will have at controlling your own critical faculty.



The more you reconnect with others on a friendly basis, the more the feeling of "isolation" will subside. You will emerge later in 2006 with a new sense of self, with more acceptance of others and an expansion of your sense of awe toward life - the beginning of a new reintegration, with an image of yourself being united with the world.



Compassionate growth is your only alternative for a deeper connection to others right now, and it all begins by giving to others what you want in return.



LIBRA - Equilibration



Establishing your real worth.

This is the year to establish yourself in the eyes of others and reap the financial rewards of previous efforts by putting a greater value on your contribution that you do for others. Then, what you had long hoped for can finally come to fruition.



Making more money and having more abundance is what sets this phase apart from the past - and it has to do with having values that are more in tune with who you are now.



Although it might be difficult for you to begin a new goal with "fun" as the motivation, taking a hobby into a new "group" activity can help you learn to feel appreciated again. Serious group activities for a "cause" could work - others will see you as fun, and you'll feel loved again - a whole world of new friends is just a shared cause away.



In fact, any humanitarian or "new age" type activity could bring an increase in your source of income and a corresponding increased sense of self worth.



Now is the time to share your values, and to receive a more equitable exchange for your talents.



SCORPIO - Transformation



Becoming More Your Self



This is your year Scorpio. Up until now, the world has seen you as a blur, because you have yet to define and incorporate your new self-image with your emotions. Years of not really fitting in, or not being acknowledged for your talents has caused a build up of cosmic proportions.



More power is given to you but only in equal proportion to your steadfast individuality. Don't compromise or you'll dissipate the magic, and quit strengthening others' illusions of grandeur, for without you, who would admire them.



Building a public image that others will admire requires offering a practical plan to others that they can use in their life. As much as this period is about redefining yourself by understanding your own needs, it also is about fulfilling the needs of society in a practical meaningfully vision.



Be unique, but adjust the self centered aspects into propping up other's importance, for they are your audience, for without recognition from others this will be a hollow period.



The strength of your ego is the balance now. The less ego the more recognition you will receive, the more ego, the less others will care to acknowledge you.



Your goal is to help others fulfill their personal dreams and by doing that is how you will fulfill yours.



SAGITTARIUS - Verification



Building a Reverent Existence.



The issue over the last couple of years that kept you detached from others was your spiritual "superiority" - and you are! But the lesson is to bring it into a practical working philosophy and demonstrate it morally in relationships, and in a heightened sense of compassion.



But don't hide away, at least not your vulnerable side, for when vulnerability turns to insecurity it mirrors that you have been abusing your superiority. Superiority should be used to guide others to manifest their dreams - and that's how you increase your understanding and compassion now, by guiding or being guided.



With there being three levels of law; civil, moral and spiritual, and three corresponding tests, money, power and pride - ask yourself which one of these tests is guiding or tempering you?



It is a testing and a tempering of both your intellectual self and your animal or love nature, in order to bring them into balance so that you can be more fully guided from within.



The tempering of the dual aspects of personality by a refining of the desire nature, brings about a balanced nature yet with an aspiring attitude.



But at this stage the tempering has to be requested - and that's the phase now. How do you surrender to things as they are, while supplying compassion and inspiration to others. Or - how do you receive that from within and above? Now you must ask.



CAPRICORN - Bondage, Mirth



Sharing Common Goals With Others



It's time to dream a bigger dream. For years you have been on a continuous chase to fulfill your dreams, and you should have quite a few "trophies" now. The question is, what do these trophies represent?



And because what you have needed for love has been ethereal and undefined, your trophies could be called "forms" of unfulfilled love.



The goal for you now is to learn to love without attaching it to a form. How do you get what you need for love while at the same time stay aware of the transitory form you are seeking it in. Is it trophies you're seeking - or love? You can love without attaching it to a form - its called freedom.



Everyone seeks to be loved in a form that is transitory, but you have reached a phase where you now know it. It is the sharing of your love that makes accomplishments feel big, and now is the time to share, for sharing is the only permanent aspect of loving.



The first phase of sharing is the elimination of all that blocks your ability to let go. Change and transformation is the key now and it begins with eliminating the need to control. Although control has been your safety it has blocked a complete integration with life. As you begin to make changes and transform your thoughts about letting go, your emotions are free to express in a new way, and this is mirrored in a change of shape and energy level of your body.



Now is the time to share your best qualities that you have kept hidden from strangers; your acceptance, your caring, your unconditional support, all these are the tools that will unite you with a bigger dream, a deeper integration with others, and a new beginning through sharing common goals.



AQUARIUS - Revelation



Success With Intimacy.



It's time to weigh the costs of success in terms of relationships. Ask yourself - can success be shared with others? Is it really recognition if you have no one outside the circle to share your views? Is isolation and separation necessary in order to be successful, or in order to maintain a relationship? How successful do you need to be, and how do you measure success? This year, all of the pieces are in place for greater success, better relationships, and fuller happiness.



But as your self image grows through how others see you, and you begin to make huge strides in your outer world through promotions and the fulfillment of your goals, a new longing stirs within you, a longing to be something more than you have been.



As you begin to demonstrate this new self image, through how you treat others or by how you manage them, a new capacity for being in complete control immerges, and as you are thrust into making decisions and managing others, so too are dissolved the fixed notions about yourself, and you begin to experience a greater intimacy with others.



This new level of intimacy is accompanied by originality in how you solve the day to day problems that effect all relationships with the outside world - a sort of clear mental state that streams solutions and answers to you because of your increased sensitivity to the true nature of all things - The Brotherhood of Man!



PISCES - Organization



Staying Open To Learning



There is not a lot of pleasure in learning how to be disciplined, but even dancing requires practicing until you can do the moves unconsciously. Making the right emotional choices is the key to understanding the dance steps.



When a child doesn't know what it wants the parents have to restrict its' actions and the Universe has been doing that to you for about two years now.You are being protected from harming yourself, and not until you see that, can you move forward with the new moves.



Work, and your attitude toward your body, and it's purpose, is the lesson now. The task is to incorporate the proper attitude into all that you do, and work is an opportunity to be of service. Your attitude toward being of service requires a disciplined approach to more fully understand that your personality is meant to be an instrument for a higher power.



The proper attitude is a signal to the subconscious mind to open the door to opportunities to serve, and the proper attitude is an inner enthusiasm. Inner enthusiasm begins a creative process that allows you to stay open to learning, for without it, there is no growth, and growth on a higher intellectual level must occur before we can serve others.



Work is essentially a lesson in humility through an opportunity to serve, and when combined with the right attitude, gives one the ability to perform any task with an open heart - and this is what you are learning now.
















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