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Dating can be difficult, especially when trying to locate that special someone that fits the mold of the ideal man or woman. Many individuals have an idea of the exact type of person that will be complimentary to their personality, who may also add a sense of adventure and excitement to life. Finding the perfect person is not easy or as clear cut as many people would like to think. A marriage is a matter of love, fun, respect and concern, but also a commitment to stay no matter how tough the going gets. Searching for Mr. or Mrs. Right does not begin with a set of criteria or expectations that should be met. Going out with different people is a time to discover them, who they are, what makes them tick etc. And then to see if they have the same values or beliefs that will keep the relationship going when times get tough. As an individual goes out with a variety of people with contrasting personalities, they will see traits that are appealing and some that are unattractive. This happens with everyone, because individuals are so different. No two people are exactly alike, which is the reason that marriages can be fun but also take a lot of work and understanding.

For the individual who is ready and willing to make a long term commitment, such as marriage, determining who and what a person is looking for in a relationship is the first place to start. As couples get together, each time they learn something more about the opposite sex and often, about themselves. Too many people believe in superficial ideas, such as an attractive person with good hair, teeth, skin quality, and a variety of other physical traits. Others seek mates that have a great deal of money, real estate, or cars. These superficial qualities can only go so far and should not be the basis for a life long commitment. Dating is a time to determine the type of person that not only compliments the personality of the dater, but will provide the love, care, honor, and respect that is required in a relationship. Seeking advice can be a very important part of the process. Many people, especially women, will seek advice through magazine or newspaper columns that deal with relationships and marriage. This is a great way to find information about the process, but the overall characteristics and qualities of the potential mate should rely on things that are important, such as fun, love, respect, encouragement, and a variety of other traits that are important to the individual. For more about other topics like dating and marriage visit our Bible resources.

After the perfect mate has been chosen and dating has run it's course, nuptials are the typical next step. Getting married is an important decision and requires much thought and care in the decision process. It is important for both individuals to be completely sure that they are ready to take this important step. The best advice, however, can come from a friend or relative. Seeking help from a friend who is married may be one way to determine if this is the best choice to make. Asking a friend for help can be beneficial in learning about the hardships and what keeps the relationship strong. Seeking advice from a friend that has gone through a divorce can be helpful as well. While this advice is not much fun, especially before the wedding, it can be a helpful part of understanding the entire process of love, and commitment. Seeking advice from a divorced friend regarding marriage may seem a little strange or awkward, but many people who have gone through it are more than willing to share what they have learned in the process. They will especially want to help a close friend by allowing them to see what mistakes can be made. It is important not to let divorce advice completely discourage one from a commitment, however, because everyone is different and there are very different circumstances to each life and each relationship.

Dating can be compared to a long term interview process, in the search for that perfect job applicant. In this case however, it is the search for the perfect mate. Using the process of going on dates is a very important part of falling in love and finding the perfect candidate for marriage. While many people base their decision on superficial ideals like money and looks, it is crucial to look much deeper than the surface. The personality and heart of an individual is the part that lasts forever, not money and good looks. Choosing a mate for life is a very difficult task. Before getting married, it's important to seek help from friends, relatives or even counselors on the things that make and break marriages. It is important to understand how to share a life and love, while developing a strong and lasting relationship filled with commitment, honor, respect, admiration, love, and faithfulness to each other and to God. "Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband"

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